by Amy Walter
When I was invited me to speak at the Pathways to Public Service event, I assumed that I’d be discussing the recent election: What it meant to have the first female nominee – and maybe even the first female president. It was going to be a reflection on what it meant for the legions of women who work in predominately male professions – politics, journalism, etc. to witness this history-making event.
But, then Gwen Ifill died. Everything that mattered before Monday, November 14th suddenly seemed less important. Or, maybe a better way to say it is that different things became more important.
I’ve known Gwen for years. First as an admirer, then as a guest on her PBS shows, and then as a friend. She was everything that the B.A. Rudolph Foundation stands for. She was fierce and loyal and she was a dedicated mentor to women, especially those of color. She gave all of herself to the pursuit of something bigger than herself. She was passionate about what she did and always strived to be better.
She battled the discrimination that came with being a woman of color in a white, male dominated world of journalism. She knew that she was going to have to work harder, be smarter to achieve the same things others got for far less. But, she always knew who she was and was comfortable in her own skin. She never tried to be anyone but herself, and that honesty and authenticity was a key to her incredible success. People trusted her because they could see that she trusted herself. I don’t think we talk enough about this when we give advice to young people. Authenticity has become something of a buzzword these days. It’s used to sell everything from pizza to candidates. But, it’s harder than it looks because it requires you to do the hardest work of all – getting deep and real with yourself. It is the work of a lifetime.
Passion in what you do matters too. Gwen loved what she did and it oozed through the TV screen. You don’t always have to adore your job. You can hate parts of it. You can question whether or not you want to keep doing it. But, if you find something that you are passionate about, you have an obligation to spread that love around. People want to be surrounded by love. People who love what they do spread love. You can be that force of light in the world.
Most importantly, she demonstrated how to bring people along for the ride. She found talent and nourished it. She didn’t babysit, and she didn’t suffer fools. She was tough. She had this look that said, “Really?” That’s all you got?” But once she brought you into her circle, you were there for life. And the older she got, the bigger that circle got. She could have easily limited access to that circle – she was big and famous and had lots of friends. But she didn’t. Let that be a lesson to us all. You are never too cool, too old, too tired, to bring more people into your life. They need you and you need them too.
The B.A. Rudolph Foundation is all about growing that circle. But you don’t have to be the person that has a TV show or a front page byline to be a mentor. You don’t need to be the greatest in your field, but, you have an obligation – a serious obligation – to pay it back. Nurture friendships. Help those who don’t have the access and the connections. If a relationship isn’t good for you – leave it. This is a town full of egos and selfishness. It’s easy to get caught up in it. But, if you do, your success will feel hollow. I consider a full life one where you can look yourself in the mirror and say that you didn’t do anything to compromise who you are or what you are. Even if it means you don’t get the shiny prize you thought you wanted.
The world is an unrelenting place. None of us feel like we are good enough or smart enough or strong enough to endure and thrive in it. But all of us can bring something to the world to make it better. Like Gwen did. Love and respect and cherish those around you for who they are. And nurture those who are coming after you. The world won’t get “fixed” but it will feel a lot better.
About the author: Amy Walter is the National Editor of The Cook Political Report where she provides analysis of the issues, trends and events that shape the political environment. Over the past 14 years, Amy has built a reputation as an accurate, objective, and insightful political analyst with unparalleled access to campaign insiders and decision-makers. Known as one of the best political journalists covering Washington, she is the former political director of ABC News and an exclusive panelist on NBC’s Meet the Press. Amy is a regular panelist on PBS’ Washington Week with Gwen Ifill as well as Fox News’ Special Report with Bret Baier and she provides political analysis every Monday evening for the PBS NewsHour. She was also the B. A. Rudolph Foundation’s keynote speaker at the 2016 Pathways to Public Service event.